This season reveals even more the reasons why finding love after 30 is challenging. I have been watching this latest season and I love the show for the obvious reasons: black love potential, the focus on 30 and over candidates and the mix of black beauty in all of its…

This Atlanta season of Married At First Sight had no real high points. #MAFS Decision Day Thoughts …. Okay, I left this season early because I could no longer take Chris, Paige, Haley, Erik, Virginia and Ryan. It was too much silly going on. …

Why sometimes pursuing your persona happy isn’t always a good thing? Just when the season is over Real Housewives of Atlanta decides it is NOW time to get good! News broke today that Porsha is now ENGAGED to Falynn’s husband. When did this happen? Huh? What? Weren’t they friends? He was staring WAY too hard at the ladies in the pool on the show :) Porsha broke the news on her social media that Falynn is now divorced and after the divorce she and Falynn’s ex fell in love and are now engaged. THEN she adds that Dennis is in favor of the relationship and they are all trying to live their best lives.

What do you do when the mom/ daughter relationship is difficult or non-existent? In an ideal world your relationship with your mom would be natural, easy, motivating and fun. What do you do when your first love is your biggest source of pain? How do you navigate the world without the one thing that most hold dear — a loving relationship with mom? Check out my interview with Author and Healing Coach, Jennifer Arnise (@BlackMotherWound) on the many ways to heal your mother wound and the specific circumstances around Black mothers and daughters that at times make these relationships even harder. Did you know that you can “mother” yourself? Are you aware that having an awful mother doesn’t automatically make you an awful one? You can move past a difficult mom/daughter relationship. Click the video below for more.

Support the financial freedom of survivors of human trafficking through learning more about The START Act in NY. It is International Women’s Day! The START Act in NY is a bill that will ensure that victims of human trafficking are able to access financial security without their prior criminal records during the time they were trafficked stopping their opportunities. Prostitution charges are currently removed from survivors records, but many traffickers force victims to engage in other crimes that are not removed that then places survivors in a financial crisis due to having felonies that they were coerced or forced to commit still stand in their way when they try to access things like employment, financial aid and more.

The drama between Paige and Chris is painful to watch. I may checkout until the last episode. This show is getting stressful. QUICK THOUGHTS: Chris’s child’s mom looked exactly the way I thought she would. Paige handled herself well in the “not needed” meeting. …

My latest thoughts on #MAFS. It is turning into a horror show. I needed to ready myself for the Chris f!?!kery this week. Paige is stupid. He didn’t fly home with you, grinned while you were hurting during the counseling session and chooses to whisper his fear of love to…

A social campaign that looks to change the perceptions around Black sex workers. Some of your favorite Black celebs have a sex worker past. I am getting social with @TashaJFierce to discuss their social media campaign that talks about the sex worker pasts of your favorite Black celebs, Black sex worker perceptions, their sex worker history and the push to decriminalize adult consensual sex work. Take a listen and learn something new about an issue that is impacting the community.

Chris is a Mess, but this season has a few missteps. Two weeks of thoughts on #MAFS #MarriedAtFirstSight 2/3/21 — WHY????? What did Paige do in her prior life to get Chris? It is the next morning and she clearly wants a divorce. Chris is a mess and I know…